Welcome to the 2nd annual edition of Scary Nonprofit Quotes.
I authored the original Scary Quotes edition in 2021 as Halloween approached, documenting examples of some of the scariest things I’ve personally heard uttered by nonprofit leaders during my time as an Executive Director and consultant.
For this second edition I put out a call to colleagues far and wide to hear their scary quotes.
So without further adieu, here are the top Scary Quotes shared with me for 2022.
1. “We’re a 501c3 so we can’t lobby”
Note: Yes, 501c3s can lobby“
2. [As told by a board member to an outgoing Executive Director]: “We’re going to hire a person to run the organization even though they quit on you despite you telling us not to hire them.”
Note: 2 years later the organization went defunct
3. [Told by a board member to an Executive Director]: “I don’t want to ask X person for money because I think it would be impolite”
4. “Rather than pay a salary, let’s pay the development [fundraising] staff 100% on commission on the funds they raise.”
5. “Our nonprofit should expand. You’re either expanding or dying.”
6. “Raising funds for our issue is much harder than raising money for other issues.”
Note: I’ve heard person raising money for issue X say issue Y was easier to raise money for even as someone working on issue Y said issue X was easier to raise money for. Unless your issues is exceedingly niche and unpopular, this is almost never the case.
Alternative version: “It’s much harder to raise money in ____ (locale). People here just don’t donate like they do in ________.”
Note: again, almost never true. Yes there are giving differences by location, but that’s very rarely the true barrier to an organization.
7. [By an Executive Director to another staff person]: “They can never fire me. I am indispensable.”
8. [By a board member}: “We don’t need an Executive Director, a monkey could do that job!”
Note: This board chair decided to do the job himself and tanked the organization.
9. [By a board member]: “I don’t do fundraising.”
Alternative version: “Why would I share my contacts/friends list with the organization?”
10. “Don’t worry about entry level staff pay, benefits, and opportunities for advancement. If people leave, no problem. Everyone wants to work here.”
11. [By a board member]: “It doesn’t matter. We’ll never get audited.”
12. [By an Executive Director asked why he wanted to be an Executive Director]: “I figure nobody could tell me what to do.”
13. [By a board chair]: “The Executive Director doesn’t need a raise because his wife is a doctor.”
A challenge unstaffed nonprofits face is that board members necessarily take on roles that are not board governance. These other roles are hard to categorize with a singular term. They include management, administration, coordination, program administration – pretty much anything that one would expect to be done by staff in a large organization.
This challenge isn’t just for unstaffed organizations. It is also true for many small or even medium sized nonprofits where the group’s ambitions exceed the staff capacity, leaving board members playing additional non-governance roles.
I have often been tasked with assisting clients on how to help their boards be more effective. For smaller organizations, I have repeatedly found that confusion regarding the additional non-governance roles taken on by directors is a problem that metastasizes in a variety of ways to make the board dysfunctional.
This article is my attempt to both explain the challenge and to point nonprofits towards some new (potentially revolutionary) steps that are worth exploring. I have seen few nonprofits employ these strategies, so I’m genuinely looking for feedback. Do my ideas make sense? Have you heard of nonprofits employing similar strategies?
Let’s start with a basic premise: in any nonprofit, there is a need for governance and management. (Here, I’m using management as a catch-all term for everything that is not governance).
The board must govern. Everything else can be delegated to either staff or other non-board volunteers.
It would take an entirely separate article (or book) to fully explore what fits into the governance category. I’m fond of BoardSource and the way they lay out 10 responsibilities of nonprofit boards.
If all an organization did was governance, though, the actual mission “work” of the organization would never get done, nor would much of the behind-the-scenes administration necessary.
The result in small organizations: board members take on management roles in addition to their governance role. And this leads me to my most important point: too often, in board meetings and board governance discussions, these extra roles are treated as just another part of their governance role, rather than as a separate non-board role.
Here are three ways this can cause problems. (I’m sure there are more).
First, board meeting time gets filled up with discussing and coordinating management and programmatic tasks, which almost always seem more urgent. The result: the board doesn’t spend as much time on governance as is needed to meet governance responsibilities.
Second, even between the board meetings. board members spend so much time addressing management and programmatic “work,” they lack the time or mental energy to perform their governance roles to the level required.
Third, the board applies to management the decision-making and communication norms meant for governance. In particular, governance normally tends to operate by consensus, with ample input from everyone before a collective vote. That’s a recipe for inefficiency (or even paralysis) when it comes to management tasks. I sat through a board meeting where an agenda item was to receive everyone’s input on a draft email newsletter and it was a deadly waste of time. Don’t even get me started on one about the table arrangements for a fundraising event.
So how do you get past this conundrum? After all, if the organization had funds to pay for staff, it probably would.
Suggestion 1: Be explicit about the fact that a board member may have both their board role and a second volunteer “management” role with an organization. You could be a board member and also the email newsletter editor, for example. But the latter is not actually part of your board service, since there’s no inherent reason the newsletter editor role has to be performed by a board member.
In general, I’d recommend that these management positions/roles be filled by appointment by the Board President/Chair for 1-year terms or ad hoc as the situation presents itself.
Suggestion 2: Formally separate out the board meeting from a second management & coordination meeting that addresses non-governance topics. Take a 5-minute break between these two meetings. The latter meeting may just be a subset of the board who are actually needed for it; and it may also include some non-board volunteers who’ve taken on an ongoing role.
Suggestion 3: Treat those who have volunteered to take on a management role as quasi-“staff” in terms of how they work. There should be position descriptions. They should provide the equivalent of a “staff” report prior to meetings. It should be understood that they have authority to operate as leader in their area of delegated responsibility and should be held accountable afterwards, rather than having the board consulted on decisions ahead of time.
Suggestion 4: Just because a volunteer takes on a “management” role with the organization (e.g. leading on some program), doesn’t mean you should elect them to the board, especially not to “fill a slot.” Reward and acknowledge people playing these non-board roles on your website, in your communications, etc., but don’t fill up your board with people who aren’t fully committed to the “governance” responsibilities that come with service.
This may mean jettisoning some people from the board who really just want to volunteer in a management role. It’s better to have a smaller board that focuses on governance than a larger board with uneven participation on governance because some “management” volunteers are sitting around the table without the time or expectations to actually govern.
Of course, it’s okay for some people to have dual roles – if they have the time to do so and understand they have two sets of responsibilities – governance (board) and management (volunteer).
Your feedback
I’ve only seen a few instances where organizations have operated in the way I recommend. I’m genuinely interested in hearing from others who have addressed the challenges I’ve raised either via something along the lines I suggest or some other method.
A few years back, somebody used the phrase “slow down to speed up” in my presence and it really resonated. Doing some quick google searches, I found dozens of articles that reference the phrase, although nothing that showed me who first said it.
Years ago I also learned of an alternative saying: “There’s so much to do, I must move very slowly” which is often attributed to the Buddha.
Regardless of who coined the phrases, I feel “slow down to speed up” is great advice for many of the nonprofits with whom I’ve worked. And as the New Year hits, I’d strongly encourage nonprofits to think about it before accelerating into 2022.
The bottom-line challenge: nonprofits often get so caught up in the small, urgent things that “demand” our attention that we don’t pay sufficient attention to the “why” and the “how,” leading to all sorts of inefficiencies that decrease our ability to advance the mission of our nonprofits.
Put another way, to increase our impact, we need to be more deliberate in the actions we take.
Why is this the case? And how can nonprofit leaders slow themselves down with long-term effectiveness in mind?
Why can going too fast lead to inefficiencies?
To be sure, you can be paralyzed by indecision and thus not take actions needed.
For most nonprofit leaders I’ve worked with, though, the opposite is the challenge. The tendency to act too quickly has repercussions on at least four different levels:
At the tactical level, trying to do too many different things at once often leads to errors. These mistakes subsequently cost time and energy when they’re discovered. Or, short of mistakes, activities are done shoddily and that reflects poorly on the organization (which can negatively influence the commitment of donors, volunteers, and stakeholders).
At the relationship level, a relentless focus on your “to do” list can lead you to underinvest in the time-consuming task of having longer conversations with organizational partners that are necessary for long-term alignment and success.
At the strategic level, rushing to get to your destination increases the risk that you actually aren’t using the best method to get there. Using a map analogy, you may try the most obvious direct route between point A and point B, but perhaps you’ve ignored the lay of the land in between the two points (e.g. a mountain), meaning the fastest route was actually going around the obstacle. Or, continuing the map analogy, it may be the terrain between point A and B requires you to use a different vehicle (e.g. you need an entirely different strategy).
Also at the strategic level, still thinking about maps, rushing towards your destination without sufficient attention sometimes means you’re headed to the wrong destination entirely, given your mission and the community needs you’re trying to meet. In most cases, this is because you’re headed where you’ve always headed as an organization, even though circumstances have changed sufficiently for a strategic reset.
Lastly, at the personal level, trying to maximize the number of things you get done increases the odds that stress and frustration will burn you out. This can lead to employee turnover that creates big organizational challenges, especially at small nonprofits.
Put another way: Slowing down allows for more attention to tasks, more robust relationships, more strategic decision-making, and a better work-life balance.
How do you slow down when there’s so much to do?
I’ve laid out all the above in a conversation with one nonprofit Executive Director whose organization perennially struggles and I can hear their voice as they say to me: “but there’s too much to do right now to take the time you’re suggesting.”
I don’t want to underestimate the challenge organizations and people face when they want to “slow down to speed up,” but the challenge can be overcome.
Here are five strategies that can help in this situation, both for individuals and organizations:
Use the 5-95 or 10-90 rule for planning versus doing.
If you’re not setting aside at least 5% of your time (2 hours per week), or better yet 10% of your time (4 hours per week) for planning, you’re not spending enough time planning. If planning isn’t your natural instinct, force yourself to set aside time on your calendar for planning (e.g. every Tuesday afternoon is set aside for planning and unavailable for meetings).
Set aside time both for personal and organizational planning. Personally, ask yourself at least weekly, “what are my priorities” in light of the organization’s top priorities? Organizationally, you should have top priorities, whether established via a strategic plan, an annual work plan, or functional plans (e.g. development/fundraising, communications, etc.).
Admittedly, I have a conflict of interest in urging every organization to have a strategic plan, but every organization should have alignment (board and staff leadership) around your organizational purpose, the long-term outcomes you’re seeking to achieve, and the primary activities you’re engaged in that lead to those outcomes. (Whether or not you call it a “strategic plan” and what terminology you use (e.g. “goals”, “mission,” “strategies,” etc.) is immaterial).
2. Calendar for relationship-building
In your goal-setting and in your calendar, be explicit that you’re setting aside time for longer, relationship-building meetings, whether with board members, allied organizations, or other stakeholders. When I was an Executive Director, the commitment I settled upon was two such longer meetings per month. I forced myself to treat these conversations as very big-picture and relationship-focused rather than task-focused.
3. Let go of some things
It can be incredibly freeing to have some things you’ve done before that you let go of as an individual and/or organization. I inherited some strategies when I became an Executive Director that I felt compelled (initially) to continue, even though I had some doubts about their effectiveness. When (after some planning) we let go of those strategies to free up space to dive deeper into other existing strategies, it felt liberating. And led to more organizational impact.
Beyond strategies, at the more tactical level, ask yourself periodically, what are some things that can be streamlined? Are there things you do now where spending half the time would yield 90% of the benefit? Give your team at least a couple times per year when you think specifically about this question instead of just assuming your tactics and organizational procedures are set in stone or will somehow “streamline themselves” on an ad hoc basis.
4. Consider some form of mindfulness practice
This is more at the individual than organizational level, but it’s important to provide yourself mental space. For some, that’s meditation. For others, that’s exercise or yoga. I’ve had some of my best inspirations about nonprofit strategies when riding my bike for fun, even though that was definitely not my intent when setting out on the ride.
Organizationally, I also had some luck taking some meetings outside whether sitting on a park bench or walking. There are some notetaking challenges this way, so it’s not for every meeting, but for some types of meetings it can give 2-3 participants the mental space to think outside the box.
5. Talk to your board about this specific challenge
If you’re an Executive Director and you want to slow down to speed up, but you feel that the ideas above just won’t cut it, set aside time at a board meeting or hold a meeting with a few key board members to discuss this precise topic.
Your board leadership may have creative ideas and may give you the “permission” you need to let go of some organizational activities (in the short run) in order to generate more organizational success (in the long run).
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Do you have other suggestions to your peers about how to slow down to speed up? Please share them!
As a counterpoint, this month I offer up some “thankful” comments about and from nonprofit leaders.
These are things I’ve actually heard nonprofit leaders say, or close paraphrases, to the best of my recollection and/or based on looking back at interview notes I’ve taken down over the years.
Our donors are really amazing. Getting to know them is one of the best parts of my job as Executive Director.
I really enjoy working with the rest of the staff. The team has really gelled over the last few months. It gives me such a thrill to see them working so well together.
It feels so good to start work every day knowing I’m making people’s lives better.
I love, love, love our volunteers.
My board is our secret superpower. They provide so much great energy for our work.
When we lost our largest funder, our board really stepped up and helped me find a path forward.
I’ve only been at the organization a couple of years, and I’m sure I’ve made several life-long friends already.
When one of the students [we’re teaching] eyes just light up because they’ve learned something new, I have to resist the urge to go give the a high five.
I know this sounds nerdy, but I love crunching data with our fundraising database.
[AND LASTLY, MY FAVORITE]: The strategic plan has been incredibly helpful as a roadmap and in securing big gifts.
In honor of Halloween 2021, here are the the scariest things I’ve heard from nonprofit leaders. These are paraphrases as I wasn’t writing them down at the time. If you read one of these and don’t think they’re scary, let me know and we can discuss.
I don’t have time to plan. I’m just too busy.
I don’t want an engaged board of directors. They’ll just get in my way as Executive Director.
I sent an email to my board asking for someone to volunteer for a task and nobody responded. I guess they don’t care.
I’ll be so glad when we get our Development Director hired and I can cut back on most of my time fundraising.
“I hate hitting up people for money,” said by a Development Director.
Not really something said, but I had lunch with a new Development Director. It was a get acquainted meeting. They talked about themself the whole time and didn’t ask me a single question.
My staff’s pretty mediocre, but I’ve just come to accept that’s the way it is.
I don’t care what the data says, I know it’s true.
“It’s not that I don’t want coalition partners, it’s just that I think the other organizations who’re doing similar work just keep making stupid decisions.” (Pretty sure that one’s an exact quote).
Nonprofit leader: “I was really upset with the decision we made to X.”
Me: “But you didn’t say anything during the meeting!” I replied. ‘If you disagreed with the potential decision, why didn’t you speak up?”
“I didn’t want to make anyone upset,” he replied.
Have you heard any of these before? Something else scary to share?
Good facilitation is a core part of my work. Since I had already begun facilitating many meetings online pre-pandemic, the switchover to all virtual meetings for the last 16 months being virtual was seamless. There are some clear best practices I like to follow.
Lately, though, I’ve been fielding questions that have prompted me to think harder about “hybrid” meetings. These are meetings where a majority of people are in a single conference room, but one or more other participants are participating remotely.
I’ve done this a few times over the years, but usually with just one or two remote participants. In those cases, it was understood the remote participants were being “allowed” to participate remotely, but with a recognition the experience was going to be inferior.
But as more organizations work in a hybrid space with employees permanently in the office and others permanently at home, it is critically important remote participants are genuinely and fully included as meeting participants.
That’s going to be challenging. I have no doubt that facilitating these so-called “hybrid” meetings is more challenging than either in-person or all-virtual.
I’ve come up with some tentative strategies (best practices) that I’ll be following and recommending in the months ahead. But I would very much like to hear back from others who’ve facilitated or experienced such meetings and have further thoughts.
So here are my tentative hybrid meeting facilitation strategies. Eight of these are technology related and ten are more general.
Let’s start with the eight technology focused recommendations.
Don’t simply re-create a virtual meeting by having all the in-person participants on their computers individually on zoom or whatever platform is being used. You might as well not be in person if that’s the approach. (However, if everyone does has a laptop and the potential to participate in zoom during breakout sessions, that’s great – see below).
If you have staff that will regularly engage in remote meetings, invest in second video monitors for them that can hook into their laptops. They are not expensive and they absolutely boost productivity when they can both participate in a zoom on one screen and also view a shared document. (This is something I’d recommend for those who use remote staff even in the absence of hybrid meetings).
Make sure audio is high quality. Invest in a high-quality microphone so that people participating virtually can hear anyone in the room. That may mean a microphone system. It also means a high-quality speaker so that those in the room can hear those participating virtually.
Think about what video from the room to project for those participating via the internet. That may very well mean two videos, or even three. These can be detachable webcams hooked into laptops via USB cables showing a combination of participant faces in the room and any whiteboard or flip chart that will be used.
If there is a portion of the meeting when you will share a document on a screen that everyone needs to see, figure out how to simultaneously project it on a big screen (for in-person) and also share online for remote participants.
Also think about video from the perspective of in-person participants and their ability to see remote participants. If the room allows it, set up a screen and project remote participants onto it, as large as possible (up to life sized if possible). This will give in-person participants a constant reminder to treat them as full meeting participants. If feasible, set up the speakers for remote participants next to this screen, so the voice will emanate from the visual image.
Test the audio-visual set up in advance so that you’re not floundering for the first 10 minutes.
To capture meeting notes, use an online white board or focus a remote camera on a flip chart so everyone can see what’s happening.
Beyond these technology recommendations, here are ten additional recommendations.
Try to reserve meeting time for things that require active discussion, using preparatory meetings shared in advance to get people on the same page. Consider generating some of the input prior to the meeting using polls, googleforms, etc., rather than using up meeting time for it.
Use an icebreaker or some other method to ensure everyone in the room and everyone remotely is talking at least once in the first 5 minutes just to get everyone engaged.
Think about how to integrate remote participants into breakout sessions. Don’t just default to have the remote participants always be their own breakout. If you have the physical space where you’re meeting and extra laptops for the setup, figure out if you can do breakouts where the remote participants are distributed among the in-person. For example, this could involve mini zoom meetings for groups of 3-4 people with 2-3 of them in a corner of the room and one remote.
During overall sessions, the facilitator needs to pay special attention to the remote participants. Don’t make the default be “and what about those of you not here” as something that only comes up at the end. Sometimes ask them for opinions first, sometimes in the middle, sometimes at the end. Mix it up just as you would if they were in the room.
Establish a clear groundrule not to have sidebar in-person conversations where a couple participants aren’t paying attention to the main ongoing conversation, but rather having their own conversation. This is probably something you should always have as a groundrule, but sidebars are especially challenging for remote participants as it becomes even harder for them to hear accurately what’s going on in the room.
Likewise, establish a clear groundrule that remote participants shouldn’t multi-task , where they have the meeting on one screen, but their second screen is being used for something unrelated.
Have a second “facilitator” assigned who’ll pay special attention to the remote participants. This can be a meeting participant (as opposed to truly a second facilitator). Remote participants should be able to reach out to them via chat or text during the meeting if they have an issue to address. Also, ideally someone other than the facilitator is “in charge” of the technology.
Schedule sessions to have more shorter breaks. A traditional 3-hour bock might involve 80 minutes, followed by a 15 minute break, and then an 85 minute session. Instead, have an initial 55 minute session, then 7-8 minute break, then 55 minutes, then another 7-8 minute break, then a final 55 minutes. It’s just harder for people remotely to stare at a screen for more than an hour at a time.
After breaks, where in-person people may have been chatting about the meeting topic, give a couple minute opportunity for them to share any “aha” moments that those on remotely should also know about.
Especially if your team is going to be doing these more frequently, acknowledge the challenge openly in the beginning of the meeting and your hope to run an inclusive process, while seeking feedback for future meetings. Don’t assume you’ll get this perfect the first few times you run a meeting in this manner.
So what do you think and what have you experienced?
Any of these recommendations seem off to you?
Has something worked well for you that I’ve left of this list?
Please use the comment section to share with everyone.
Quite a few times in my years as a consultant, I’ve encountered Executive Directors who accomplish tasks very effectively. Their writing is cogent. Documents they produce are always well-formatted. They are well-spoken in person, laying out clear ideas. They get a lot of stuff done. They clearly work a lot of hours.
Yet, their organization is floundering.
Almost always, it’s because they’re getting the wrong tasks done.
By “wrong,” I don’t mean they are doing tasks that are inherently counterproductive and take the organization backwards. It’s that they’re doing tasks that should be priority 6 through 10 when priorities 1 through 5 are crying out for more attention.
Peter Drucker wrote extensively about this 50 years ago in his seminal book: The Effective Executive. What separates the great from mediocre executive is a relentless focus on getting the right things done, not just doing things right.
In every organization I’ve encountered, the Executive Director (or CEO by whatever title)) could work 24 hours a day, 7 days a week and not run out of useful things to do on behalf of their organization. Of course, in the real world you have 35-50 hours per week on a sustained basis.
How can an executive stay focused on the top priorities in order to be more effective?
Here are my top five recommendations.
Recommendation 1: Actually decide rather than letting events push you around. I’ve met more than one executive who, beyond keeping a calendar, has nothing that could be described as a work plan beyond to-do lists scribbled on pieces of paper.
There are dozens of ways to give yourself a work plan. As an Executive Director, I used an Excel spreadsheet broken down by major categories of work and tasks within them, with deadlines. I’ve worked with an Executive Director who used a Word document effectively. Today, many executives have moved to online project management systems like Asana or Trello. (I use Asana for my consulting work planning).
Whatever technology you use, the bottom line is for the system to allow you to identify your big-picture goals (outcomes) that you aim to achieve, along with major activities underneath them. Whether the time frame is monthly, quarterly, or some longer period of time, it should be updated regularly.
Of course, a corollary to this recommendation is you shouldn’t skimp on planning time. More than once I’ve had an executive say they’re too busy to invest the amount of time in the planning that I am recommending to them. This brings to mind one of my previous blog posts: have you sharpened your axe lately? The short version: a timber cutter who takes 10% of their time sharpening their tool and 90% cutting likely cuts more than one who just ignores the need to sharpen their tool. Think of planning as sharpening the axe. 10%-90% may not be the precise ratio to shoot for, but in my experience there is no way to confidently “get the right things done” without taking real time to think things through, whether alone or with your team.
Recommendation 2: Don’t prioritize in a vacuum. Prioritize within your work plan by staying focused on your most important organizational goals and strategies. Whether embodied in an organizational strategic plan or some other document that the Executive Director writes up, the goals selected should clearly tie back to important organizational outcomes and the strategies should match up with the organization’s primary activities.
When a new idea emerges (presented to you or generated by you), assuming it’s not already clearly within the work plan, ask three questions as a filter before adding it to the plan:
Question one: Is the task squarely within one of our organization’s strategies? If not, it is almost always suspect.
Question two: Should I be the one to do this task? Just because it should be done, doesn’t mean the Executive Director should tackle it. What tasks should fall to the Executive Director and what to other staff, to contractors, or volunteer leaders? If it’s at all possible to delegate it, do so.
Another way of approaching this question is to ask: is this something that requires my participation either because of my unique skills or relationships? If not, is there someone else able to do it?
This filter is especially important for an executive to use when receiving requests to participate in meetings. More often than not when I encounter a floundering executive, they are heavily scheduled into meetings where they aren’t essential participants. They just don’t want to miss out on the “action.”
Question three: Is the task the cake or the icing on the cake?
Put another way, is accomplishing this task an essential element towards what I’m trying to accomplish or just a nice additive. Unless and until you are confident all the essential building blocks are being achieved, tasks that are merely positive should be shelved.
Recommendation 3: Use your calendar to block off the important tasks that you tend to struggle to complete. Schedule yourself into a block of time when you’re committed to just that task, avoiding all distractions. Often times in the nonprofit sphere, major donor fundraising is what tends to get pushed off for other things that seem more time-sensitive. That was true in my case. I finally forced myself to stick to a schedule where everyone on my team knew I wasn’t to be disturbed.
Recommendation 4: Cut out the easy time-wasters. Examples of these include:
The impromptu meeting with co-workers that takes half an hour that could be done in 15 minutes. At the beginning of any such impromptu meeting, ask: “what do we need to get out of this conversation” and stick closely to that subject.
The half-dozen times during the day you check your Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or other social media because there might be something relevant to the organization’s work. (This is one of my weaknesses). Unless it’s your job to manage these social media platforms, once per day should be sufficient.
The extra 15 minutes formatting a document to be perfect when it was already good enough to be understood. Occasionally you’re producing something worthy of that extra 15 minutes, but most of the time that’s 15 minutes better spent moving onto the next important task.
Recommendation 5: Beware of shiny objects. These are the opportunities that come along that seem cool. They may even come with funding. Perhaps you’re asked to speak to a group. Or to put together a media release on some breaking news of relevance. Often, these are things that may gratify the ego, but really aren’t essential building blocks to organizational success. Get used to saying no and feeling good about it because when you say no to something new, you’re saying yes to the core work you already have underway.
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Do you have your own techniques for staying focused on the right tasks? Please share them in the comments.
An Executive Director working for a former client recently invited me out to have lunch at a park and then go kayak on the river with her. We spent most of the lunch talking about the organization’s challenges and the potential role an upcoming strategic planning process could play in meeting those challenges.
Then we went for our paddle. Just a short one, about 40 minutes.
The Tualatin is a gentle river in a suburban area, but we saw (and heard) some lovely birds and this turtle sunning itself on a log.
Despite the short amount of time involved, the experience was enough to get my brain recharged and think about the incredible role that rivers can play in improving our communities, which was well-timed given one of my current clients is entirely focused on watershed protection. Thanks Jan!
In thinking about the experience, I was reminded of the parable of the three bricklayers and the importance of nonprofit leaders taking steps to ensure they don’t lose touch with their deeper purpose.
This is a variation on a famous parable that supposedly was first told by Christopher Wren, in 1671, while he was serving as chief architect for the rebuilding of St. Paul’s Cathedral in London.
A woman was walking down a street and came across someone laying bricks. The first bricklayer was dejected and doing a sloppy job as they laid bricks on top of each other. The woman asked the bricklayer: “what are you doing?”
The first bricklayer’s answer: “I’m putting bricks in a row and then putting another layer of bricks on top of them.”
Further down the street, the woman came across a second bricklayer. This bricklayer was workmanlike – doing their job in an apparently competent manner.
The woman asked the second bricklayer: “what are you doing?”
The second bricklayer’s answer: “I’m building a wall that will form the side of a building.”
As the woman walked even further down the street, she came across a third bricklayer. This bricklayer was whistling as they worked, obviously happy, as they methodically and competently put bricks together in rows, mortared them, and slowly built upwards.
The woman asked the bricklayer: “what are you doing?”
The third bricklayer’s answer: “I’m building the wall of a hospital that will save people’s lives.”
Is it any wonder that the second bricklayer was more productive than the first, and the third was most productive of all?
The first was given a task, but had no purpose.
The second had a purpose, but it was shallow.
The third had a task, a purpose, and the purpose was framed in a deeper way that could arouse passion.
So how does this apply to nonprofits?
Almost always, small, new nonprofits are like bricklayer three. They are founded around a purpose and that purpose tends to remain front and center as the team is built and tasks are divided up. Executive Directors who are founders are particularly like bricklayer 3.
Yet, over time – whether the organization grows or not – nonprofits often wind up treating their staff, board, and other volunteers like bricklayer 2, or even worse bricklayer 1.
I saw this repeatedly when I was an Executive Director interacting with other organizations, and I see it sometimes as well as a consultant.
As organizations grow, there is a tendency to focus on specific duties or tasks that need to get done at the expense of the mission. This is particularly true on the organizational capacity side of the equation.
It’s easy to stay focused on the purpose when you’re doing the programmatic work of your nonprofit that directly advances the mission. It’s harder to say focused on the purpose when you’re working on board governance, or fundraising, or information management systems.
These are the “bricks” that form the foundation of the organization, so it’s easy to get caught in the trap of focusing on the process of laying bricks or the fact that it’s a “foundation.”
Yet, in failing to keep your deeper purpose front and center, groups are likely to go off course as they lose some of the passion essential to fuel volunteer and staff activity.
Here are a few examples.
Your board is asked to raise money. You pay a great deal of attention in training them to the mechanics of raising the money and the need to hit certain financial goals. Yet, if the staff doesn’t repeatedly tie those financial goals back to the purpose as it talks to the board, the board is less likely to go the extra mile to ask their friends for money.
I’ve seen the same situation happen with staff playing a non-program role. Whether they’re doing your human resources, your database management, your accounting, or any of the myriad of other tasks that go into a medium or larger sized nonprofit, it’s easy to fall into the trap of training them in isolation on just their own jobs. Many nonprofits can find competent administrative staff to “lay bricks.”
Yet in my experience, administrative staff who’re repeatedly shown how their work is critical to your deeper purpose, are stronger performers. It may take a little extra time up-front to consistently keep the purpose front and center, but the payoff is almost always worth it. They will work harder and are less likely to leave for another job. And they will be more creative in finding ways for their work to better support the programmatic work.
How about volunteers?
A great deal of my experience managing volunteers is in the election context, so my example will lie in that realm. Election volunteers are asked to step out of their comfort zone to talk to strangers at the door or on the phone on behalf of candidates or issues.
In the election context, I repeatedly found that enthusiastic, repeat volunteers emerged most often when they were informed not just about the task at hand (the phone bank – bricklayer 1), and not just about the campaign (the phone bank as key to winning the election – bricklayer 2), but also the underlying purpose (the phone bank as key to winning the election so the candidate can lead on policies that save lives from dangerous levels of pollution — bricklayer 3).
So what are some management techniques leaders can use as a manger to avoid going off course by losing touch with your deeper purpose?
Three techniques come immediately to mind:
First, get really good at talking about your organization’s fundamental purpose, whether you call that your mission or otherwise. Make sure this is about underlying values and not first-order impacts. Keep talking about it. Just because you think everyone’s heard you talk about it before, don’t be shy about bringing it up again to reinforce the message.
Second, make sure the agenda for any significant meeting and the talking points for any presentation have some time set aside that connects the topic at hand to your deeper purpose. Even if you think everyone attending already understands your purpose, consistently reminding people of that purpose when they’re together as a group is a powerful way to build community and teamwork.
Third, as you grow, don’t completely silo those people who perform largely administrative or capacity building functions from your program work. They should be part of staff meetings or retreats that are focused on program. As you hire, train, and supervise these staff, make sure you find ways to continually connect them to the purpose.
In the end, of course, some people are going to naturally think like bricklayer 1, just as others are naturally going to think like bricklayer 3. But nonprofit leaders are absolutely in a position to make sure their organization doesn’t go off course by letting the purpose be lost amidst the details.
I recently was speaking with Amanda Caffall, who helped start and currently leads the Commons Law Center, a relatively new nonprofit. The Center is clearly thriving, even with the challenges posed by 2020, and I asked her to what she attributed their success.
Among the various reasons cited, she used a phrase about herself that struck a chord in me: “naive optimism.”
The optimism part was straightforward. Basic personality matters when it comes to nonprofit leadership. People who see the world as “glass half empty” tend not to perform as well in Executive Director roles as those who see it as “glass half full.”
People whose instinct is to ask: “how do we get this done?” tend to perform better than those who instinctively think of all the reasons a program or project will fail.
Of course, people who are pessimistic and focused on what could go wrong play a really important role within nonprofits in keeping teams grounded, helping avoid problems, etc. They make awesome chief fiscal officers. But usually not Executive Director.
But what about the word “naive?” Why does it matter in this context?
The key insight is that some people have been “educated” by seeing or being told about failure in all its myriad of forms. And as their naivety is hammered out of them, they become more likely to inappropriately second-guess themself and they can become paralyzed by indecision and excess caution.
“Naive optimism” is that lucky place some leaders find themselves in where they’re inherently optimistic and they haven’t yet “learned” something can’t be done. So they go out and do it – often by leading a team.
As I reflect, I can think of a dozen Executive Directors (mostly younger) who really shined in their roles because they combined strong leadership skills with “naive optimism.”
As a nonprofit Executive Director, do you ever feel like if you walk away, things will crumble?
I felt this occasionally as an Executive Director, particularly in my first few years.
Strategies I employed to get beyond this feeling:
Take deep breadths
Look back at my to-do lists and short-term plans, break them down in chunks, and think hard about what else can be either delegated or pushed off/let go.
Map out my major yearly, quarterly, and monthly tasks. Figure out which ones can be delegated. If to nobody right away, figure out how somebody can eventually take over those tasks. (Of course, for some, the answer is nobody because they’re inherent to the E.D. role).
If appropriate after #2 and #3, ask for help. Be candid with your board chair or, if that would be awkward, somebody else who you can confide in who will grasp the picture. Sometimes just talking about it’s enough to recognize you’re probably not actually holding up the wall.
What strategies have you used when you have this feeling? I’m looking for other ideas to share!
Our Board wasn’t totally sure they could raise money. After a series of training sessions with Jonathan, they found that, not only could they could do it, but that it actually was a positive experience.
— Anna Goldrich, Executive Director, Sauvie Island Center
